Well, that's what kills me. I don't go around him, yet he's around me. To be specific, he's my sister's, well, what i thought was an ex. She's 18, he's 37, i'm 16. This all started a few months ago. Me and my friend were just chillin' in my room, playing video games and guitar, but not being obnoxiously loud. Didn't give any reason for anybody to barge in. Well, for the sake of shortening a story, my sister was yelling at me for bullspit reasons, and she wouldn't leave me alone. I'm usually patient with morons, but 15 minutes passed, and she wouldn't stop messing with me. This has been a chronic thing, and part of why i'm so aggressive now. I got sick of letting her drive me insane. I wanted her to shut up and leave me alone, but i didn't wanna hurt her that much. So, i puts her in a 2 armed chokehold for 5 seconds, enough to not cause injury, but enough to get her to leave me alone. Well, i knew i'd get drama from somebody, so the next day, wouldn't you know, her boyfriend calls and says, (this is the only part i remember, and i quote) "You better hope the next time you lay hands on her that the cops find you before i do." I don't mind when people talk crap to me... so long as they say it to my face. Seriously though, can anybody be more of a *insert alternative word for coward here* than that? If he wants to act hard like he's gonna kill me, seriously, i got the nerve to go over there and maim him. I know I'd at, full mercy, only break one of his nerves with my knife.

Irony being, this guy's 37 and living with his dad, yet i'm the only one that'd have the balls to do something. Even then, i'm trying to take the high road. What sucks though is that, my friend who's going out to be a pro musician, he's finally got a weekly gig in town at this steak house. I won't deprive him of some moral support (he's one of my best friends), but that guy's always there, and if things keep up, i wouldn't be surprised if i just snapped and beat him in the public.

I haven't threatened or talked to him, but i think this is gonna be one of the first times where i straight mess up.

Dont take this the wrong way... But I think the messing up part was putting your Sister in that hold >_>... YES, im sure she would drive any one crazy, but unless she got Phisicly agressive, and began hitting you, would I ever sugest putting her in a potentilly harmfull hold. >.>...

 

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Next time she goes to yell at you, shove her out the door and slam it in her face.  And if all else fails, tune her out.  Look away and don't even listen.  Do something else, hell.  Even turn up the music really loud.  The moment she decides to lay a hand on you, there's nothing that you do that she can do about as long as it's an equal force to her's.

As far as her boy toy goes, don't even bother.  I know dudes like this and trust me, they're not worth the steam.  He's not gonna do anything other than call the police.  And he can't amount for much seeing as he's not a direct witness.

As for the police?  She was provoking you.  That's what you tell them.  And if it did come down to her hitting you, you tell them about that.

Though, considering she had to go all the way to her scardy-*** boyfriend to include him into something that wasn't his business and do something she could've just done herself, I doubt it'll get to that point.  I wonder if she'll even try bitching at you again.


And yea, this is similar to something I've had to deal with. -.-;

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@DN: She's 18 and he's 37!? Dude, thats not right. He's old enough to be her Dad. I think they both need to date someone their own age for one thing.

Anyways, Cant say I agree with putting her in a chokehold. But I do know where you're coming from. I'd lock her out of your room or leave the house for a bit to cool off. And as far as the guy goes, I'd just ignore him. I highly doubt he has the balls to do anything to you. But if he ever did touch you, then its plenty reason to give him what he's got coming. So basically I'd just shrug them both off.

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Something like it... For the record, i don't expect anybody here to agree that some physical harm to my sister was a good thing. I ain't saying I was right either, but my view is, any guy under the circumstances would've too. Irony being, when my mom was talking about this to her boyfriend (who is her age), he said "That's all he did?" My mom told me about how, back in the 70's, if brothers and sisters pissed each other off enough, things like this were expected to happen. Which, in my opinion is correct if it's a long term problem, like mine, with one person getting harassed fiercely and frequently.

 

To Vergil - I use to think that way too, but sometimes you don't have to be physically aggressive to provoke somebody. She's almost gotten to me to kill myself (if that's any indicator as to how much she's down my throat), and for once, instead of just turning away and putting up with her, she wouldn't stop for 15 minutes, so i made her. Not the right thing to do, but if your sister got to you enough, wouldn't you have?

To visualxkei - I would, but she always picks the lock, and I got sensitive ears, so cranking any music would only be hell on me too >.> . Plus, all we had at the time was my friend playing songs on his accoustic. And she never layed a hand on me, but she wouldn't leave me alone for 15 minutes straight. Everything after your first paragraph, those were my thoughts after i calmed down.

To Cobalt - lol That's my opinion too. And yea', yet again, i'm not saying i completely agree with what i did either, but if someone pushes you far enough, don't we all snap? I'm starting to shrug it off. This all heppened 4 months ago, and i'm finally getting some help from my Christian friends that grew up under better circumstances. 

DrowningNoises:

 Vergil - I use to think that way too, but sometimes you don't have to be physically aggressive to provoke somebody. She's almost gotten to me to kill myself (if that's any indicator as to how much she's down my throat), and for once, instead of just turning away and putting up with her, she wouldn't stop for 15 minutes, so i made her. Not the right thing to do, but if your sister got to you enough, wouldn't you have?

Id train them when they were young!....jk

I, myself, Resort from Violence on woman....then again, I havent met a girl who Bitches at me for fifteen minuts strait, in wich case, I would have escorted her out of the room. I dont know your build, but im a rather big guy, and Would probly just ppush them out, and shut the door.

Its hard to determin weather she deserved it or not, you could say she savegly attacked you when she just slaps your shoulder a few times. To some, that is a savage attack, to others, thats just "play". Some people have more tolorences to other things. My point is . Maybe Verble abuse just dosent affect me as it dose you. :/.

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so guys whats up havnt been on in a few days ive been on myspace so i havnt been keeping the forum alive but i think i might become adicctited to it so i might now be on for quite a while

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Dont you touch her she has nothing to do with this, LET HER GO!!

DrowningNoises:

Something like it... For the record, i don't expect anybody here to agree that some physical harm to my sister was a good thing. I ain't saying I was right either, but my view is, any guy under the circumstances would've too. Irony being, when my mom was talking about this to her boyfriend (who is her age), he said "That's all he did?" My mom told me about how, back in the 70's, if brothers and sisters pissed each other off enough, things like this were expected to happen. Which, in my opinion is correct if it's a long term problem, like mine, with one person getting harassed fiercely and frequently.

 

To Vergil - I use to think that way too, but sometimes you don't have to be physically aggressive to provoke somebody. She's almost gotten to me to kill myself (if that's any indicator as to how much she's down my throat), and for once, instead of just turning away and putting up with her, she wouldn't stop for 15 minutes, so i made her. Not the right thing to do, but if your sister got to you enough, wouldn't you have?

To visualxkei - I would, but she always picks the lock, and I got sensitive ears, so cranking any music would only be hell on me too >.> . Plus, all we had at the time was my friend playing songs on his accoustic. And she never layed a hand on me, but she wouldn't leave me alone for 15 minutes straight. Everything after your first paragraph, those were my thoughts after i calmed down.

To Cobalt - lol That's my opinion too. And yea', yet again, i'm not saying i completely agree with what i did either, but if someone pushes you far enough, don't we all snap? I'm starting to shrug it off. This all heppened 4 months ago, and i'm finally getting some help from my Christian friends that grew up under better circumstances. 

You are aware that if it's as serious as driving you to suicide, you have the right to go to someone about it, right?  Driving you to killing yourself is assisted suicide and is very against the law.  Even altogether depressing you, she shouldn't be allowed to even be near you.  Get a phucking restraining order.

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I would, but it's my sister. I know the drama I'd get from my family would be even worse than just riding this out, because most everybody's really close knit. Plus my mom's always just said to put up with it... It's worked so far, and I only messed up once. I hear where you're coming from, but this is pretty common around where I live. Way I see it though, she's leaving for college here in a month, and she'll be a few hours away. Yea', it's phucked up that now society calls things like this acceptable, but there ain't much I can do. I don't believe in hitting a woman, unless she's pointing a gun at me or rushing me with a knife, but I think this is one of those hypothetical kind of debates. 

How far is pushing somebody too far?

This is the reason I wish I had a brother instead. If he acted like this, I would've pounded the Un-Godly Hell out of him, and that would be perfectly acceptable by society, just because it'd be a brothers thing. Just because she's a girl, I am where I'm at now. What blows is that, I've only got one friend over here that understands and feels for me, because he got put in the insane asylum for bullspit reasons.

And yes, I do realize that I probably sound like a *insert secondary word for cat* right now, but I've been looking for a long time, a way to get around putting up with her that follows the Bible and doesn't piss my mom off. I've found nothing yet.

And for all the people about to call me a hypocrite, just because somebody believes in Jesus' teachings Doesn't mean they're perfect, it means they still mess up but they try awful hard to improve.

Hey its just us staff that are logged on now. Anyone hooooome?

Did we run everyone outta town?

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No wonder everyone else has left when there is so many ugly Staff Faces around at once. :D

By the way, we need a new chatroom. Who wants to have the glory to make it?

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No doubt. All except for 1

I'll do it if no one minds. This will be my first new Chat Room opening.

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Cobalt:

No doubt. All except for 1

I'll do it if no one minds. This will be my first new Chat Room opening.

Oooooo Il get the candles!!!!

Happy first chatroom opening COBALT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

>_>;.....what?...

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