Friends and family can talk about them but noone else.
You can say like He was good. great actor etc.
But none of those grotesque tributes or anything.
And absolutely no what ifs or he would be good in this etc when hes dead.
No exessive talk or anything from anyone including friends and family.You know like those soppy remenisces and such.Only talk about them if you have to.
When anything is said it has to be in the past tense.
No visiting graves no disgusting over the top tributes none of it.
It is cruel to the dead.
Put it this way.
When a person is dead and they are famous no magazines should be printed, no constant comments made and no other digustingness. Elvis Presley stuff is a very good example.
Only stuff on what they achived in the sense that that it is their legacy and career.
and you can talk about the dead as people. Not they had few flaws etc. if they were a drunk then say it.
The dead dont mind the truth being said.
Its the lies they hate.
A person who lies about the dead may as well get their gun and shoot themselves right then. Cos the dead will wreak a revenge more horrible than the living ever will.The dead wait for liars when they die.They come before the gatekeepers of the hell get to them and drag them down for punishment with their own justice on top of the ordained.
The flinch in your eyes calls your bluff
Feel free to die when you've had enough
Useless cause is breaking your back
Your life will end when you attack.
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