She ended up turning into my "friend", but I didn't choose her to be a friend willingly....she just started talking to me the first day of school and has been botheriing me ever since....Actually, no. She's not a friend...just some girl who always waves to me every hour of school. And I don't think it's the best approach to just eat like a slob dude...LOL! It' just not my style to get someone to stop liking me that way. I'll just tell her that I know she likes me, but I don't like her waving to me at least 3-4 times a day...and sitting next to me every time she has a chance and to just leave me alone and let me be. She has really been trying hard to get me to talk, to get me involved in stuff, to just get me more interested in her and stuff. But I know that it ain't happenin' and to just let it go, because I do not like her at all in that kind of way. She has asked me if I "thought of her as a friend, or deeper", and she also asked for my address one time....I didn't give it to her but I know she'll just keep trying to go on and on and get me to start going out with her...I just want to be myself at school and to be partially left alone a little. (Especially by her).....

Well Beo, seeing how you're a babe magnet (must have picked it up from me ) just tell her you see her more like a friend. Or you can just tell her that you just got out of a really really bad relationship and you dont want to start another one for quite a while ( always works well ).

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Beowolf:

She ended up turning into my "friend", but I didn't choose her to be a friend willingly....she just started talking to me the first day of school and has been botheriing me ever since....Actually, no. She's not a friend...just some girl who always waves to me every hour of school. And I don't think it's the best approach to just eat like a slob dude...LOL! It' just not my style to get someone to stop liking me that way. I'll just tell her that I know she likes me, but I don't like her waving to me at least 3-4 times a day...and sitting next to me every time she has a chance and to just leave me alone and let me be. She has really been trying hard to get me to talk, to get me involved in stuff, to just get me more interested in her and stuff. But I know that it ain't happenin' and to just let it go, because I do not like her at all in that kind of way. She has asked me if I "thought of her as a friend, or deeper", and she also asked for my address one time....I didn't give it to her but I know she'll just keep trying to go on and on and get me to start going out with her...I just want to be myself at school and to be partially left alone a little. (Especially by her).....

Don't worry man, the "LOVE" doctor is here...

Tell yah frankly, there's no good timing in doing this... It just has to be done ASAP so that yah won't hurt the girl more than you'll already do... I wish you'd just done it earlier...

Well this is the straight forward approach (but in a "VERY" mild mannered way), first of all tell her that you have noticed the "extra" attention you've been getting from her and that you appreciate it and all "BUT" it's getting to a point wherein it bothers you... This is the time where you pop the big question... ask her "do you like me? as in like me or are you just this friendly?" if she answers yes, tell her that you don't want to be in a relationship now and that your the loner type person and would not be right for her. tell her your really sorry about it... As I said before don't tell her that you can always be friends, that's like giving her the idea that there is something between you. Tell her your just not use to too much attention from anyone and its making you uncomfortable. Again tell her you sorry and walk away man, don't look back... After which, don't avoid her when you see her the next day. Just a casual nod to her will do then be on your way...

Bottom line is as before... It's very hard for a girl to be dumped, than for a man... So all yah guys be as gentle as possible when doing it, but don't give them any hopes either. get my point?

So good luck man... And may "cupid" be merciful to you! LOL

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"release the demon within..."

looks like I'm just missing the big party

(Love and Relationships) what an ordeal,

well its nice to have such thread. so who's having a true SAD love stories more than me?

dare to challenge

NeroSparda:

tell "your" friend he's welcome, glad to hear "he" opted for number one even though I opted for number two. tell "him" good luck and it will be a long road for "him" and "he" should be strong... hehehe

(all the qouted words maybe "you"...) LOL

He he he, so funny, But seriously dude it was for my best Friend.

But now move to me shall we, I have a Girlfriend But I have grown weary of her, and there is this girl who really Loves me, and I also think she is "Fit", or whatever you kids are saying these days.

So problem we have been together for 1 year just about, and I really really can't think of a way to leave her down easily. So help guys would be appreciated, nothing nasty do I make myself Clear.  

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tell her you joined the army lol!JK.And we say hot.Pay attention!Dont let her go.Shell just spread rumors..horrible rumors.And you wont have a girlfriend again.Youll break her heart and itll be like tearing up her insides!Dont do it!Think of who you truly love not just there body but who they are on the inside.Think of who loves you for who you really are. 

 

devilmaycry3:

NeroSparda:

tell "your" friend he's welcome, glad to hear "he" opted for number one even though I opted for number two. tell "him" good luck and it will be a long road for "him" and "he" should be strong... hehehe

(all the qouted words maybe "you"...) LOL

He he he, so funny, But seriously dude it was for my best Friend.

But now move to me shall we, I have a Girlfriend But I have grown weary of her, and there is this girl who really Loves me, and I also think she is "Fit", or whatever you kids are saying these days.

So problem we have been together for 1 year just about, and I really really can't think of a way to leave her down easily. So help guys would be appreciated, nothing nasty do I make myself Clear.  

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That right people.The 60G cost 600!And stop complaining you damn people.A normal Blu Ray DVD player Costs 800 american dollars!SO SHUTUP!You are basically getting a discount!

devilmaycry3:

NeroSparda:

tell "your" friend he's welcome, glad to hear "he" opted for number one even though I opted for number two. tell "him" good luck and it will be a long road for "him" and "he" should be strong... hehehe

(all the qouted words maybe "you"...) LOL

He he he, so funny, But seriously dude it was for my best Friend.

But now move to me shall we, I have a Girlfriend But I have grown weary of her, and there is this girl who really Loves me, and I also think she is "Fit", or whatever you kids are saying these days.

So problem we have been together for 1 year just about, and I really really can't think of a way to leave her down easily. So help guys would be appreciated, nothing nasty do I make myself Clear.  

when you say you've "grown weary of her," what exactly do you mean?

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"So, you want a piece of me literally. Ok bro, come and get it if you can."

devilmaycry3:

NeroSparda:

tell "your" friend he's welcome, glad to hear "he" opted for number one even though I opted for number two. tell "him" good luck and it will be a long road for "him" and "he" should be strong... hehehe

(all the qouted words maybe "you"...) LOL

He he he, so funny, But seriously dude it was for my best Friend.

But now move to me shall we, I have a Girlfriend But I have grown weary of her, and there is this girl who really Loves me, and I also think she is "Fit", or whatever you kids are saying these days.

So problem we have been together for 1 year just about, and I really really can't think of a way to leave her down easily. So help guys would be appreciated, nothing nasty do I make myself Clear.  

I got this. Send her an E-mail or Text message. It always work.

Or you can say I think it's a good enough time for us to see other people. If she is crying lie and say, If things don't work out with us out for a year we will go back together.

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NeroSparda:

Don't worry man, the "LOVE" doctor is here...

Tell yah frankly, there's no good timing in doing this... It just has to be done ASAP so that yah won't hurt the girl more than you'll already do... I wish you'd just done it earlier...

Well this is the straight forward approach (but in a "VERY" mild mannered way), first of all tell her that you have noticed the "extra" attention you've been getting from her and that you appreciate it and all "BUT" it's getting to a point wherein it bothers you... This is the time where you pop the big question... ask her "do you like me? as in like me or are you just this friendly?" if she answers yes, tell her that you don't want to be in a relationship now and that your the loner type person and would not be right for her. tell her your really sorry about it... As I said before don't tell her that you can always be friends, that's like giving her the idea that there is something between you. Tell her your just not use to too much attention from anyone and its making you uncomfortable. Again tell her you sorry and walk away man, don't look back... After which, don't avoid her when you see her the next day. Just a casual nod to her will do then be on your way...

Bottom line is as before... It's very hard for a girl to be dumped, than for a man... So all yah guys be as gentle as possible when doing it, but don't give them any hopes either. get my point?

So good luck man... And may "cupid" be merciful to you! LOL

Well, first of all....I already did say that I don't think of her in "that kind of way", and of course you know the scenario: "she just simply doesn't go away and she keeps bothering me"...so either she can't take a hint.....  OR she understands but is just pretending to be a casual friend when she actually likes me alot and is just acting like we're friends just so she can be by me and sit next to me at lunch every single day. Also....she is one of the lunchlady assistants, so she gives out some type of food every day at luch then; when she sees me she'll of course wave to me when I'm a foot away and say "save me a spot where you're sitting, k?" OMG...I just can't get away from her I tell ya! When I DO tell her all the stuff about why I don't want her around me so d@mn often, and what I think she should do or stop doing, then she'll always be there at the lunch area serving some sort of food. So even when I sit somewhere else, or anything like that to get away from her...she'll still be there during luch helping out the lunchladies.

BUT, thanks for the tip nonetheless...even when she is by me and all that, I will try to pretend she's there. But if she says hello, I'll just not even look at her and just say "hey" back....I think since she is always by me, and always talking to me....alot of girls that ARE nice and seem like a good looking girl, they might get the wrong idea and get disappointed and think "oh....he's going out with her" but anyways, I will try to say it politely and let her down easy, but anyways...we'll see. 

devilmaycry3:

NeroSparda:

tell "your" friend he's welcome, glad to hear "he" opted for number one even though I opted for number two. tell "him" good luck and it will be a long road for "him" and "he" should be strong... hehehe

(all the qouted words maybe "you"...) LOL

He he he, so funny, But seriously dude it was for my best Friend.

But now move to me shall we, I have a Girlfriend But I have grown weary of her, and there is this girl who really Loves me, and I also think she is "Fit", or whatever you kids are saying these days.

So problem we have been together for 1 year just about, and I really really can't think of a way to leave her down easily. So help guys would be appreciated, nothing nasty do I make myself Clear.  

Lucky you I'm not a "kid" anymore... (am 27 fyi)

Guys, guys, guys... seriously, didn't you dad teach yah anything? lol As I said before (for beo), theres no such thing as an easy way to dump or let go of a girl. They'll (almost all) will take it very hard, and of the 17 GF's I had (my wife included ) half of those I dumped or had to let go and they took it hard (some even tried to overdose themselves with pain killers and had one which tried to cut her pulse, crazy huh?). You know what I've learned? Almost all of them asked the same question, which is "How long have you felt this way?".

So the "best" way to dump or let go for any reason is do it as soon as possible! In line with that, I hope you didn't give your GF any ideas so you can actually claim that you just felt it recently (if)... Don't go to any nice place to say it, a place where she will feel secure would be nice, her house would be the best if possible. "Tell her that you feel its time for both of you to move on and that its not her problem, its yours... You've grown "out" of love for her and you just can't explain why... Your relationship is the best thing that happened to you in a long while and your really sorry this has to happen. You wanted her to know this early as you don't want to hurt her more than you are already doing"... This way she "might" take it easily...

Also this is the situation where you can say that "you'll always be her friend no matter what and that you'll always be there for her coz you cherish what you had"...

So good luck and do it as gentle as possible and at the soonest time possible...

LOVE DOCTOR OUT... LOL

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"release the demon within..."

i cant get a gf i want one but wtf they dont like me damn it

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expect_nothing:

i cant get a gf i want one but wtf they dont like me damn it

i guess thats why you name is "expect nothing"... LOL  just kidding...

How old are yah anyway? So i'll know how to approach you situation...

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"release the demon within..."

Yeah that's another thing, did I tell you what my age is NeroSparda?

NeroSparda:

expect_nothing:

i cant get a gf i want one but wtf they dont like me damn it

i guess thats why you name is "expect nothing"... LOL  just kidding...

How old are yah anyway? So i'll know how to approach you situation...

 

unfortunatly 18 

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expect_nothing:

NeroSparda:

expect_nothing:

i cant get a gf i want one but wtf they dont like me damn it

i guess thats why you name is "expect nothing"... LOL  just kidding...

How old are yah anyway? So i'll know how to approach you situation...

 

unfortunatly 18 

Why don't they like you? Have you ever asked a girl out before? Maybe there is a girl that does like you and you just don't know it. One of my best friends likes me alot he evens clames that he "Loves" me. I never knew it until a few years ago. So ya never know if someone truly likes you and is to afriaid to tell ya.

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I could never ask for more now that I'm with "the one."

I live my life with love and pride